"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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when do you ask

surface1030

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okay after getting her digits and going out on a couple dates, having her wanting you the most, this doesn't mean that you guys are actually girlfriend/boyfriend right? Because yo're just going out and having fun together. when is it when a dj can ask her to be his girlfriend? cause i remember i went out with this chick long time ago and i never asked her to be my girlfriend. and her friend asked me, are you guys going out? i said no and the girl i was seeing was like, WHAT? lol whatever, stupid girls.

but anyways, ^^^
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NRM

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DJs don't ask girls to be their girlfriends. Afterall, you're attracting, they are doing the pursuing. All you do is kiss her, make all the right moves, and before long, she'll consider herself a slut if she doesn't give you the nametag.

Be a man. The first kiss should be before the relationship starts. The only way to see if a woman is really interested is to let her ask you out.
 

Wiesman44

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Dude, you dont ask her to be your g/f. Its just assumed after going out for a while. You can talk about it i suppose, like whats our status, but generally, i've never had to do that
 

Porky

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You and this girl were going out. If people ask me if I'm "going out with" so and so, I either say no, or "we're dating."

All in all I much prefer to date girls than be official with them.
 

Heizen

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Realize this:

The whole attitude that you are conveying when you are a DJ is that you dont need a GF, and things can be very casual. To ask her to be your GF shows a different kind of personality, probably different then the one that she was originally attracted to.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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