So girls are sleeping around bc they want sex but have not found the right guy. Is the fact that most men are too feminine causing women to sleep around bc there isn't a strong masculine man to polarize her make her stay? After all David Deida's book taught me that masculine energy is what attracts the feminine energy - something about polarity can't put it into the right words. If the guy isn't creating that polarity, then it would make sense for the girl to fvck many guys.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When do girls want a relationship vs just wanna fvck?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So girls are sleeping around bc they want sex but have not found the right guy. Is the fact that most men are too feminine causing women to sleep around bc there isn't a strong masculine man to polarize her make her stay? After all David Deida's book taught me that masculine energy is what attracts the feminine energy - the polarity is what creates the attraction. If the guy isn't creating that polarity, then it would make sense for the girl to fvck many guys.
Thanks for the reply that makes a lot of sense now.There can be all different kinds of factors in play, and yes masculinity is often a driving force to some degree for decisions made, but what I know for certain is that we all have our needs, even women.
No man, short of church-camp guy, is going to say, "I'm really, really horny, but I want to wait on sex until I'm in a good, solid, loving relationship". Don't believe women are any different. Many may pretend to be like that, but if most women were truly honest, they would admit their minds can often be as dirty and in the sexual gutter as our own.
At some point, single women grow tired of going on 100 first and second dates that ignite no passion and go nowhere. Many times they're sexual needs aren't being met with the whole 3-5 dates of "get to know you before sex" stuff, especially if the guy turns out to be an atrocity 3 dates in and she has to start over with some other dude. Eventually, they just say "fvck it", go on a date or two, get drunk and get themselves some nasty. Then they have standards again, until the horny comes back.
There always comes a point in the life of every sexually active adult where you just can't hold out and wait for that "great" person anymore, because it takes too damn long to find them. The same is true of people coming out of dead relationships. Rebound sex. Perfect example. Not looking for the LTR. Just gotta get some for the itch.
We all have our needs, and we're all going to appease them when the time it takes to hold up on high standards is grinding on us.
I used to have close to no sexual drive with women because I was still on porn. I always told myself she's not good enough and that I would was going to wait until I meet someone good enough. Little did I know that was just an excuse and that my sexual drive was not high enough to actually put in the effort to get a real girl. I just assumed that was the case for everyone, but now I realize ppl will lower their standards to get their needs met. When I got off of porn and then I started to find more girls attractive that I would not have found attractive before.
No offense but this is a sort of dumb question....
the answer is that you really shouldn't care.......believe me when i say life will smooth along just nice when you adopt
that mind set.....
Think about the present moment and then....think about the next meet....bring fun to that meet and enjoy yourself.....after? chill out relax and think about the next meet.....
NEVER THINK BEYOND THE NEXT MEET WITH A GIRL
the answer is that you really shouldn't care.......believe me when i say life will smooth along just nice when you adopt
that mind set.....
Think about the present moment and then....think about the next meet....bring fun to that meet and enjoy yourself.....after? chill out relax and think about the next meet.....
NEVER THINK BEYOND THE NEXT MEET WITH A GIRL
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
this is not quite true, most women i have sex with become emotionally attached to me, women are emotional jealous beingsMost women just want pump and dump that’s why they go on tinder.