"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When did you learn women are pure evil?

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When did you finally learn women are pure evil from the pit of hell?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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when it was too late.

society and the media created an image of women that is very different from the reality. women judge us by looks, money and status. they just want the best.

they are not innocent or pure.
 

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About a year and a half ago. Actually a little longer. Thank god it was soon enough.
Thank God or Allah or whomever you prey to for sites such as so suave. :up:
 

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I wouldn't go so far as to say they are evil. Well, some are. Bipolars, boderlines, damage cases, spoiled gold diggers, etc. are. But they represent the worst of female society. But what they are is selfish and mostly motivated by self interest. That I agree with. They are wired that way.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When I started listening to rap HA!
 

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Women are not evil, well not all of them, but they are inherently selfish compared to most men, it varies though
 

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Sunday school. :)

That's why you kids should have gone to church. You wouldn't need to go to SoSuave to learn this stuff.
 

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When Eve ate from the tree of knowledge.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think women are pure evil.

I don't think that much of women to have their immature actions affect me in anyway possible.

I live my life my way, some may call me selfish, but they respect me for it.
 

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If women are pure evil than men must be satan himself.
 

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Evil is the wrong word to use, I think competitive is a better one. The fact is you have to be competitive to get anywhere in life be it a man or woman. You basically have to put your interest before anyone else. This is what the smart do including women so you should do the same.
 

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Let's be honest, men are attracted to the same thing women are; mystery, intrigue and uncertainty - i.e. bad girls.

Women are not evil. It's just the nice girls are just the same as nice guys - dull as dishwater.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Woman are evil because we let them be like this , if you won't be a doormat or lose your respect this sh1t won't happen.

The first sign of disrespect from a woman is a time you need to teach her you are gone if it will happen again. i learned that the hard way. never again.

Joe.
 

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TheMonkeyKing said:
Let's be honest, men are attracted to the same thing women are; mystery, intrigue and uncertainty - i.e. bad girls.

Women are not evil. It's just the nice girls are just the same as nice guys - dull as dishwater.
I disagree with this entirely. I find bad girls repulsive. I've always been attracted to nice girls.
 

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zekko said:
I disagree with this entirely. I find bad girls repulsive. I've always been attracted to nice girls.
While some men might be drawn to bad girls, I would say that men's attraction to "bad" is not nearly as strong as women's. (Women don't need dark triad traits to attract men lol.) I think some guys only go for bad girls because they are perceived as more "easy/promiscuous." Whether they actually are or are just AW-ing is another debate.

But I agree with you Zekko that nice girls are underrated. The really nice, intelligent women can be far more wild in the sack that one would expect and still more pleasant to be with.
 

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zekko said:
I disagree with this entirely. I find bad girls repulsive. I've always been attracted to nice girls.
Well, horses for courses, I suppose. Personally I've had access to very fine women, very reliable, fit and beautiful, girl-next-door types. I've had to let so many of them go though, because the excitement for me simply wavered.

There is a happy medium to be had, for sure, and the dynamic really depends as much on the man's behaviour as much as the chick's; hence the extent and reach of the Manosphere.

Opposed to 'pure evil', I'd say there are distinct issues with honesty and emotionality, neither of which we are going to change in the long run; rather, we adopt strategies to deal with the fallout.
 

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When you have your ducks in a row, it is a great experience to have a quality woman add to your already good life. That being said, they are not a dozen in a dime, but they are out there. Woman are not pure evil.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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