"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When did you learn women are pure evil?

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When did you finally learn women are pure evil from the pit of hell?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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when it was too late.

society and the media created an image of women that is very different from the reality. women judge us by looks, money and status. they just want the best.

they are not innocent or pure.
 

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About a year and a half ago. Actually a little longer. Thank god it was soon enough.
Thank God or Allah or whomever you prey to for sites such as so suave. :up:
 

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I wouldn't go so far as to say they are evil. Well, some are. Bipolars, boderlines, damage cases, spoiled gold diggers, etc. are. But they represent the worst of female society. But what they are is selfish and mostly motivated by self interest. That I agree with. They are wired that way.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When I started listening to rap HA!
 

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Women are not evil, well not all of them, but they are inherently selfish compared to most men, it varies though
 

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Sunday school. :)

That's why you kids should have gone to church. You wouldn't need to go to SoSuave to learn this stuff.
 

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When Eve ate from the tree of knowledge.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't think women are pure evil.

I don't think that much of women to have their immature actions affect me in anyway possible.

I live my life my way, some may call me selfish, but they respect me for it.
 

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If women are pure evil than men must be satan himself.
 

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Evil is the wrong word to use, I think competitive is a better one. The fact is you have to be competitive to get anywhere in life be it a man or woman. You basically have to put your interest before anyone else. This is what the smart do including women so you should do the same.
 

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Let's be honest, men are attracted to the same thing women are; mystery, intrigue and uncertainty - i.e. bad girls.

Women are not evil. It's just the nice girls are just the same as nice guys - dull as dishwater.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Woman are evil because we let them be like this , if you won't be a doormat or lose your respect this sh1t won't happen.

The first sign of disrespect from a woman is a time you need to teach her you are gone if it will happen again. i learned that the hard way. never again.

Joe.
 

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TheMonkeyKing said:
Let's be honest, men are attracted to the same thing women are; mystery, intrigue and uncertainty - i.e. bad girls.

Women are not evil. It's just the nice girls are just the same as nice guys - dull as dishwater.
I disagree with this entirely. I find bad girls repulsive. I've always been attracted to nice girls.
 

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zekko said:
I disagree with this entirely. I find bad girls repulsive. I've always been attracted to nice girls.
While some men might be drawn to bad girls, I would say that men's attraction to "bad" is not nearly as strong as women's. (Women don't need dark triad traits to attract men lol.) I think some guys only go for bad girls because they are perceived as more "easy/promiscuous." Whether they actually are or are just AW-ing is another debate.

But I agree with you Zekko that nice girls are underrated. The really nice, intelligent women can be far more wild in the sack that one would expect and still more pleasant to be with.
 

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zekko said:
I disagree with this entirely. I find bad girls repulsive. I've always been attracted to nice girls.
Well, horses for courses, I suppose. Personally I've had access to very fine women, very reliable, fit and beautiful, girl-next-door types. I've had to let so many of them go though, because the excitement for me simply wavered.

There is a happy medium to be had, for sure, and the dynamic really depends as much on the man's behaviour as much as the chick's; hence the extent and reach of the Manosphere.

Opposed to 'pure evil', I'd say there are distinct issues with honesty and emotionality, neither of which we are going to change in the long run; rather, we adopt strategies to deal with the fallout.
 

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When you have your ducks in a row, it is a great experience to have a quality woman add to your already good life. That being said, they are not a dozen in a dime, but they are out there. Woman are not pure evil.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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