Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The good thing about a BJ is that there is no exhaustion by the man, so the sexual release can be better. I am also a fan of slow deep spooning - i.e., the sidestroke for coitus - for this reason. That said, bending a chick's legs back by pinning her with her arms can be rewarded with great thrusting.