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When chicks asks for advice/suggestion?

oneboy21

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This is when you don't know her much and you are interested in banging her.
how do you respond to this particular situation. Is it a Bait to respond and than they flake or play games from here. What are your suggestions.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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I'm not sure what you said. But I think I may know what you mean. When she asks for advice on guys I respond, "I'm not a girl. I couldn't tell you." Or "I'm not most guys, I can't tell you what he is doing." Telling her what she wants to hear is a good way to get friend zoned.
 

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My new policy is to stop giving advice to females. When was the last time a girl helped you with dating stuff? <Cricket, cricket lol>. Don't count on it. They want you to fail.

Giving her dating advice can put you in friendzone too. Don't be her free therapist. That's what her girlfriends, gay guy friends, and straight orbiter guy friends are for.

But to answer your question, Amw406 is correct. "I don't know. I don't really know this guy (or know him that well)" will suffice.

Then change the subject to something more fun and positive. If she won't change the subject, politely eject because you're busy and have bigger fish to fry.
 

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Let me rephrase it

Some times girls asks for advice on things like computer, buying a car or etc.
If you barely know a girl, how do you react to this situation?
 

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oneboy21 said:
Let me rephrase it

Some times girls asks for advice on things like computer, buying a car or etc.
If you barely know a girl, how do you react to this situation?
Now, let's assume a guy asked you the same thing.

Would you assume, after he asks, that he's gay and hitting on you?

So... where exactly are you assuming that a girl is attracted to you because she's saying things that end with a slight up-chord in her voice (a question)?

OP, if she was asking all this while taking off her top and also holding your balls with her mouth, then maybe I'd say she likes you.

Otherwise, I'd say she's asking about a computer or car.
 

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oneboy21 said:
Let me rephrase it

Some times girls asks for advice on things like computer, buying a car or etc.
If you barely know a girl, how do you react to this situation?
I'd react like she's a human being asking me for advice. If you want to flirt with her, then go ahead. But there's no need to treat every male-female interaction as some PUA game.
 

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