"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TxCowboy

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Lately , I've been last minute with girls when it comes to phone calls. I was considering asking an ex to a club tomorrow night by calling her up tonight to schedule it. Girl has a high IL

Anyone think this should be done at last minute sometime tomorrow or else tonight ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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stalluproar

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I have a differing opinion about going out with your ex, but I will leave it at that.

Women like guys to be spontaneous. Calling her up tomorrow last minute would be better. I would say a friend couldn't go and just seeing if you want to get together. If she comes up with a lame excuse not to, tell her to cancel her plans, you are more fun.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Why the hell are you calling your ex to hang out? :woo: Nah, you just wanna bang her, come on, you can be honest. Use the right head.
 
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