"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When are you sexual enough?

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Well, as i am makeing progress i am wondering when do you get to the point when you stop kinoing?
Pook says that when you are sexual enough kino will only harm you.
So, dear pook, how do i know when i am sexual enough?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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when I get there I'll tell ya.

You'll probably know too
 

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I think what he's referring to is not getting stuck in a kino loop. Basically you have to escalate the sexual state. I like foreplay, so I usually get the girls so worked up they ask me if I have a condom. Just keep escalating until she's too horny to say no.
 

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That particular post is when Pook has gotten to a pretty advanced level of smoothness.

What he's talking about is a feeling.

You can't say, "I held eye contact for 7.652 seconds, had three conversations about "sexy subjects" and felt that I was in a sexual state for 52% of the time."

You need to get out there and experience, fail, succeed, experiment. You'll begin to become aware of feeling of "sexual tension." Once you get that sorted then you'll be able to do what Pook is talking about. Until then I would advice using a bit of kino.

JJ
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks alot JJ, you really helped me =).
 

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Go to your local shop and install a sexual-o-meter. If if goes past middle, you better cut the kino.
 

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djbr said:
Go to your local shop and install a sexual-o-meter. If if goes past middle, you better cut the kino.
Very funny.
 
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