"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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When are you sexual enough?

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Well, as i am makeing progress i am wondering when do you get to the point when you stop kinoing?
Pook says that when you are sexual enough kino will only harm you.
So, dear pook, how do i know when i am sexual enough?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PersonalJesus

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when I get there I'll tell ya.

You'll probably know too
 

Fortunate_Juan

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I think what he's referring to is not getting stuck in a kino loop. Basically you have to escalate the sexual state. I like foreplay, so I usually get the girls so worked up they ask me if I have a condom. Just keep escalating until she's too horny to say no.
 

Jay Jay

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That particular post is when Pook has gotten to a pretty advanced level of smoothness.

What he's talking about is a feeling.

You can't say, "I held eye contact for 7.652 seconds, had three conversations about "sexy subjects" and felt that I was in a sexual state for 52% of the time."

You need to get out there and experience, fail, succeed, experiment. You'll begin to become aware of feeling of "sexual tension." Once you get that sorted then you'll be able to do what Pook is talking about. Until then I would advice using a bit of kino.

JJ
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks alot JJ, you really helped me =).
 

djbr

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Go to your local shop and install a sexual-o-meter. If if goes past middle, you better cut the kino.
 

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djbr said:
Go to your local shop and install a sexual-o-meter. If if goes past middle, you better cut the kino.
Very funny.
 
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