"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When approaching a 2 or 3 set..........

Wiesman44

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When approaching a 2 or 3 set at a bar / club, should I approach with or without my wing ? Its my own fault for letting my AFC wing come along for the ride I guess. I'm the one doing all the initial openers.

From my past few experiences, it seems as though its hurting me. It doesn't help that they're AFC's. Yet, even if I had a competent wing, do any of you feel that I should be approaching these women by myself ? I know I can, its just a matter of having the unfortunate circumstance of having a 'tard as a wing right by my side.

I think I should be going at this alone.

I'm 6 ft, 200 lbs, 33 inch waist. I go to the gym and so my phsique is fairly impressive (or so I think ). My wings were 5'10 170, and 5'8 130-140. I think they'd just bring me down physically when approaching with them. Although I'd only take 1 wing w/ me when I went to approach.


Any thoughts ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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vorbis

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slightly o/t but how successful are people in closing girls that they open in a set. 90% of my closes (number, kiss and f**k) have been in one to one situations. Say me and a wing chat up two girls, chat up a lone wolf. I've had convos with groups of girls before but am puzzled as to how you transition that to a close.
 
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