I have read in Pook about how action dates work better than non-action dates. Well I have an impending lunch date because I could not think of anything else. Any advice on making a lunch date fun or perhaps how to transition it to an action date?
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Should do it near a mini putt or bowling alley. Somewhere else in transition. Assuming you are athletic. If you are slower metabolism, dad bod, uncoordinated, don't bother lol
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Take her to church lmao... Day dates are ****ty imo
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.... Pook is probably overthinking. Action dates are good once you know the chick a bit (3-4 dates already). There's nothing wrong with a lunch date, just make it close to a park or monument. Somewhere to take a walk and make conversation. If she likes you, she'll bump and touch you a lot.
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