I've seen this term alpha widow used before but haven't read enough content to know what it means. So it means that girls that are super into you where you have a high score their list they will actually rationalize over their feelings and not be with you? So we are saying that women can in fact reason over their emotions?
The term "Alpha-Widow" existed before I came up with HST. Both of them are very much tied together, although I'm not quite fond of the term and the usage of the word "Alpha". It doesn't really have anything to do with being alpha. It's more about the emotional imprint the man has made on the woman.
Women will go with whatever they're feeling in that particular moment. Sometimes what they feel is very temporary. That's why you'll have a woman break up with you and then contact you a week or two later. It's not that she's logically decided to try dating another man, it's that she's
emotionally decided to try dating another man.
I don't think they actually rationalize over their feelings. I think one emotion overrides another emotion. Again, a woman will go with whatever she's feeling in the moment. Here's an example...
Emotional state: positive
She's enjoying being with you, even though her family is telling her that she can do better. Everything in the relationship is still new, fun, and exciting.
Emotional state: negative
Her family is constantly nagging her to get rid of you, and is making her feel bad about you. Because of the constant barrage of recent negative emotion related to you, she decides that it's best if the two of you actually were broken up, so she ends the relationship
Emotional state: positive
She's going through the pictures on her phone and finds a recent one of the both of you doing something fun together. She remembers the positive feelings that were related to you and starts to think about you again. Her family has ceased nagging her because she finally got rid of you, so there is no more emotional override.
As a bonus, if you succeeded in making a huge emotional imprint, then you're at the top of her high score list. She just fvcked herself over by dumping you, and is going to have difficulty pair-bonding with any new man she meets.