When a woman is giving a man pleasure by sucking dvck / eating ass would that make her submissive? Or dominant?

[member159871]

I randomly thought about this today and was curious to know people's thoughts on this.

 

[Black Widow Void]

I've only had this conversation brought up once.

About ten years ago, a girlfriend (that had a slight dominant personality) claimed that when blowing me, she felt "in control." This didn't make a lot of sense to me, but hey... if this gave her a higher self-esteem, I was willing to contribute (I can be self-less like this at times).

 

[mrskinnypantz]

It can be , if you let it make you fall in love and weaken you I guess but the act itself is submissive

 

[BuckledWheel]

If she’s in control I would say she’s being dominant. Same as if you’re on your back & she mounts you, she’s taken control. If you feed her your dvck your in control & she’s submissive. If she ass eating she’s a keeper.

 

[Kotaix]

In prison, if you suck d!ck or eat ass, you're submissive.

 

[thelambofdeth]

Depends on the context of the job. If you're standing and fecking her face and choking and making her gag then no...she's submissive. But if you're sitting and she's the one controlling the tempo and pace, it can be dominant. The same way eating pussay can be bc you have their most private, sensitive part on your mouth and you're in control of it. I can see the ideal working both ways.

And getting your salad tossed is ghey af.

 

[Murk]

And getting your salad tossed is ghey af.

For real, why to girls love to try ass play so much?

 

[thelambofdeth]

For real, why to girls love to try ass play so much?

Idk dude...probably they had twinks or femboys in the past and assume all guys are into it. All I know is if you're some dude with his legs in the air trying to get your ass licked you're probably a repressed ghey and one step from getting pegged...

 

[derby1]

For real, why to girls love to try ass play so much?

theyve been taught it by porn.

for instance my penis is around 6.5/7x5.5 inches on a very good day.

I went through years of self esteem and ED issues because I thought I was quite small. due to porn. I also dont have a very good flaccid.

the reality is the 3 of the last 5 women ive been with ive made "sore" due to being plenty big enough

this is what the internet and social media is doing to us.

 

[thelambofdeth]

theyve been taught it by porn.

for instance my penis is around 6.5/7x5.5 inches on a very good day.

I went through years of self esteem and ED issues because I thought I was quite small. due to porn. I also dont have a very good flaccid.

the reality is the 3 of the last 5 women ive been with ive made "sore" due to being plenty big enough

this is what the internet and social media is doing to us.

There's truth to this. Mainstream porn is ghey af now. There's like 15 minutes of a uber close up of deck sucking with a complete focus on the deck. No pussay eating of course, and now there's like a mandate to have 15 minutes of some dude with his ass in the air getting serviced. When did this become the norm? As a black guy I feel like it's even worse bc in all the IR scenes I swear there is a quota and a strict requirement to have every black guy in every scene to have a 20 minute span where he's getting his ass worshipped and the camera is totally zoomed in.

An obvious ploy to emasculate men and normalize ghey tendencies. I thought straight porn is supposed to be straight? If you literally want to see pussay at all be the focal point and not deck you have to watch lesbian porn lols.

 

[Murk]

theyve been taught it by porn.

for instance my penis is around 6.5/7x5.5 inches on a very good day.

I went through years of self esteem and ED issues because I thought I was quite small. due to porn. I also dont have a very good flaccid.

the reality is the 3 of the last 5 women ive been with ive made "sore" due to being plenty big enough

this is what the internet and social media is doing to us.

I'm the same, was always convinced my d!ck was small, I'm a grower not a shower. Erect is 7" and thick and I always get compliments and girls say sometimes it hurts, it cost me losing my virginity at 19 instead of 16 and still being insecure until around 23.

 

[f(x)]

I’m not gonna lie but after like the tenth deep throat bj, it’s hard for me to not catch feelings.

I’d rather sit back, relax and have her do all the work anyhow.

I return the favor, so maybe the acts mutually cancel each other out vis-a-vis a sub/dom perspective?

Never really did atm, still on fence about it.