"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When a Tranny Starts to Swallow the Red Pill

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I watched this video last night, and it was VERY interesting. This is a woman who used to be a dude, and she talks about how much bull5hit goes on in the LGBTQ community. She mentions how lots and lots of lesbians are just women who have daddy issues, or are just bisexual because they want a replacement for their ex-BF. She also talks about how actual lesbianism (feminine females dating other feminine females) does NOT exist.

She talks about this during the first half of the video. The second half is her talking about how lonely and suicidal she is.

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interesting.

I watched this video last night, and it was VERY interesting. This is a woman who used to be a dude, and she talks about how much bull5hit goes on in the LGBTQ community. She mentions how lots and lots of lesbians are just women who have daddy issues, or are just bisexual because they want a replacement for their ex-BF.
This is unquestionably true. Sexuality is much more complicated than we like to think.

She also talks about how actual lesbianism (feminine females dating other feminine females) does NOT exist.
This, however, is unquestionably stupid.
 

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This, however, is unquestionably stupid.
Have you ever seen this anywhere except porn or sex shows? I haven't. At most, a one-time encounter i.e. a 3-some.
 

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He used to be a dude, still more feminime than the average feminist woman.

The fact that the lgbt community is a receptacle of degeneracy and people fvcked up in the head is no surprise.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My high school girlfriend turned lez during college and lived with a bull dyke. Eventually, that relationship ended, and she went back to men, got married and settled down. She told me once, "I was at a gay keg party at this nasty trailer park, looking around at the people there, and I thought to myself, why am I hanging out with these people, just because we have sex the same way? I don't like these people; I don't have anything in common with them, and I don't want this to be my social circle."

All gay couples have a male role and a female role. With lesbians, usually you can tell the man in the couple by appearance. But even if you can't, and they both look completely feminine, that is only appearance. One of them is the man in the bedroom.
 

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Have you ever seen this anywhere except porn or sex shows? I haven't. At most, a one-time encounter i.e. a 3-some.
Plenty. Indeed I'd say most Lesbian couples I've known have been femme/femme at least outwardly. Bull dykes are not the average, just more visible and noticeable. Of course I'm assuming your experience might be somewhat limited what with porn being your base knowledge

I'm more inclined to believe the person in the video who spent 20 years trying to date a lesbian woman who isn't bi or butch.
What about the majority of lesbians who would vehemently disagree with this woman? Inclined to believe them? Or are you inclined to agree with something confirming your own bias?
 

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I'd say most Lesbian couples I've known have been femme/femme at least outwardly.
Are they actual lesbians, or are they bi?

What about the majority of lesbians who would vehemently disagree with this woman? Inclined to believe them? Or are you inclined to agree with something confirming your own bias?
My bias is that women (be them straight or not) will generally lie about things they don't like to admit. It has nothing to do with them being lesbians, it has to do with them being women.
 

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Are they actual lesbians, or are they bi?
Lesbians almost to the letter. Guys usually accuse them of being bi though (because they don't "look" like a lesbian apparently), but guys are often stupid too.

My bias is that women (be them straight or not) will generally lie about things they don't like to admit. It has nothing to do with them being lesbians, it has to do with them being women.
Point well taken.
 

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Plenty. Indeed I'd say most Lesbian couples I've known have been femme/femme at least outwardly. Bull dykes are not the average, just more visible and noticeable. Of course I'm assuming your experience might be somewhat limited what with porn being your base knowledge
Take note of a typical shill's attempt to discredit the poster, rather than argue his point.

Pretty much everyone in this thread, including the woman in the video, has experience to the contrary of your opinion. Your passive insults don't work.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think I did a good job of both actually. Go me.
Well if there is anything you know more than me about, it is homosexual relations. Go you, for sure.
 

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I would like to hear the accounts of heterosexual trans men who used to be women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well at least you knew your place, like a b1tch.
With your bitchiness and hashtagging you are definitely one of the more ladylike of sosuave posters.

Maybe I should exit this thread but you definitely belong here Julienne.
 

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With your bitchiness and hashtagging you are definitely one of the more ladylike of sosuave posters.

Maybe I should exit this thread but you definitely belong here Julienne.

Feel better now? Go cry in the corner.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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