"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When a Tranny Starts to Swallow the Red Pill

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I watched this video last night, and it was VERY interesting. This is a woman who used to be a dude, and she talks about how much bull5hit goes on in the LGBTQ community. She mentions how lots and lots of lesbians are just women who have daddy issues, or are just bisexual because they want a replacement for their ex-BF. She also talks about how actual lesbianism (feminine females dating other feminine females) does NOT exist.

She talks about this during the first half of the video. The second half is her talking about how lonely and suicidal she is.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interesting.

I watched this video last night, and it was VERY interesting. This is a woman who used to be a dude, and she talks about how much bull5hit goes on in the LGBTQ community. She mentions how lots and lots of lesbians are just women who have daddy issues, or are just bisexual because they want a replacement for their ex-BF.
This is unquestionably true. Sexuality is much more complicated than we like to think.

She also talks about how actual lesbianism (feminine females dating other feminine females) does NOT exist.
This, however, is unquestionably stupid.
 

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This, however, is unquestionably stupid.
Have you ever seen this anywhere except porn or sex shows? I haven't. At most, a one-time encounter i.e. a 3-some.
 

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He used to be a dude, still more feminime than the average feminist woman.

The fact that the lgbt community is a receptacle of degeneracy and people fvcked up in the head is no surprise.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My high school girlfriend turned lez during college and lived with a bull dyke. Eventually, that relationship ended, and she went back to men, got married and settled down. She told me once, "I was at a gay keg party at this nasty trailer park, looking around at the people there, and I thought to myself, why am I hanging out with these people, just because we have sex the same way? I don't like these people; I don't have anything in common with them, and I don't want this to be my social circle."

All gay couples have a male role and a female role. With lesbians, usually you can tell the man in the couple by appearance. But even if you can't, and they both look completely feminine, that is only appearance. One of them is the man in the bedroom.
 

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Have you ever seen this anywhere except porn or sex shows? I haven't. At most, a one-time encounter i.e. a 3-some.
Plenty. Indeed I'd say most Lesbian couples I've known have been femme/femme at least outwardly. Bull dykes are not the average, just more visible and noticeable. Of course I'm assuming your experience might be somewhat limited what with porn being your base knowledge

I'm more inclined to believe the person in the video who spent 20 years trying to date a lesbian woman who isn't bi or butch.
What about the majority of lesbians who would vehemently disagree with this woman? Inclined to believe them? Or are you inclined to agree with something confirming your own bias?
 

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I'd say most Lesbian couples I've known have been femme/femme at least outwardly.
Are they actual lesbians, or are they bi?

What about the majority of lesbians who would vehemently disagree with this woman? Inclined to believe them? Or are you inclined to agree with something confirming your own bias?
My bias is that women (be them straight or not) will generally lie about things they don't like to admit. It has nothing to do with them being lesbians, it has to do with them being women.
 

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Are they actual lesbians, or are they bi?
Lesbians almost to the letter. Guys usually accuse them of being bi though (because they don't "look" like a lesbian apparently), but guys are often stupid too.

My bias is that women (be them straight or not) will generally lie about things they don't like to admit. It has nothing to do with them being lesbians, it has to do with them being women.
Point well taken.
 

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Plenty. Indeed I'd say most Lesbian couples I've known have been femme/femme at least outwardly. Bull dykes are not the average, just more visible and noticeable. Of course I'm assuming your experience might be somewhat limited what with porn being your base knowledge
Take note of a typical shill's attempt to discredit the poster, rather than argue his point.

Pretty much everyone in this thread, including the woman in the video, has experience to the contrary of your opinion. Your passive insults don't work.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think I did a good job of both actually. Go me.
Well if there is anything you know more than me about, it is homosexual relations. Go you, for sure.
 

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I would like to hear the accounts of heterosexual trans men who used to be women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well at least you knew your place, like a b1tch.
With your bitchiness and hashtagging you are definitely one of the more ladylike of sosuave posters.

Maybe I should exit this thread but you definitely belong here Julienne.
 

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With your bitchiness and hashtagging you are definitely one of the more ladylike of sosuave posters.

Maybe I should exit this thread but you definitely belong here Julienne.

Feel better now? Go cry in the corner.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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