"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When a plate flakes completely with no contact or excuse..

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When you are scheduled to see a girl lets say 5pm Wednesday. You reach out to confirm the get together. Then you get zero response, even a few hours after the scheduled time still zero response. Do you..

Just ignore her/delete number?

Text/call her and make her feel like crap?

Also if she does reach out later with some BS excuse do you respond?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ignore delete number if she never contacts me.

If you could tell its a bs excuse ill ignore and next her. It just depends sometimes its hard to tell if the excuse is legit, if she counteroffers and re schedules then cool, ill give it another go.
 
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I'd say don't bother contacting her. If she contacts you then see if she gives a legitimate reason why she flaked. Then you decide if you want to give her another shot. You are the prize, not her.
 
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I had this girl say her cousin died before our date I just felt it was bull**** she didnt show any evidence to prove it.

But I gave her another chance she flaked on me so much I could own kellogs lmao. so my advice next her if she intiate go head nothing to loose.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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