"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When a plate flakes completely with no contact or excuse..

tomwesten27

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When you are scheduled to see a girl lets say 5pm Wednesday. You reach out to confirm the get together. Then you get zero response, even a few hours after the scheduled time still zero response. Do you..

Just ignore her/delete number?

Text/call her and make her feel like crap?

Also if she does reach out later with some BS excuse do you respond?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jair213

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Ignore delete number if she never contacts me.

If you could tell its a bs excuse ill ignore and next her. It just depends sometimes its hard to tell if the excuse is legit, if she counteroffers and re schedules then cool, ill give it another go.
 

GS750

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I'd say don't bother contacting her. If she contacts you then see if she gives a legitimate reason why she flaked. Then you decide if you want to give her another shot. You are the prize, not her.
 

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I had this girl say her cousin died before our date I just felt it was bull**** she didnt show any evidence to prove it.

But I gave her another chance she flaked on me so much I could own kellogs lmao. so my advice next her if she intiate go head nothing to loose.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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