"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When a ***** ignores your request then replies afterwards.

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Her - What's happening at your place tonight?


Me - Gonna be gettin into some trouble

Me - Let me know if your down im going to be making some stirfry in a little while



Her - Hey. How was the shindig at your house?



do you delete her?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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Lol. Yeah...just delete every woman who doesn't jump when you snap your fingers...see how that ends up working out for you.
 
El Payaso

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Just reply "It was good".

Simple. Nothing more. Nothing less.
 
pyros

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I think some dj principles should be updated.

Nowadays, unless you've had sex with a girl, and she loves you and really likes you, she doesnt care what the fvck you did last night, or why the fvc you took two hours to reply to her text...because she has orbiters everywhere she goes, everytime she checks her phone, etc.

So I would stop playing these 'strategies' to 'raise' their interest level, because really, they are stupid.
She is either into you or not. And even if she is she doesnt really care until you've reached the point I mentioned above.

Guys are the ones who really care today.
When the average woman has 4 or more times the options of the average man...something is really wrong...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Atom Smasher

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I would probably spit out a trial balloon like "Awesome. If ONLY you knew what you missed..."

Doesn't hurt. You can always drop her if no response.
 
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