"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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when a girl tells you that she likes someone

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a girl told me that she was in love with another person. I badgered her about it and she took a while to say that he wasnt from our school. she also said that she would tell me who it was later and ask me for advice. lol wtf...

you think she was telling the truth? i thought it was me. honestly lol.
in the past every girl that tried telling me that they liked someone, only mentioned it bc they liked me. so is she lying?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I had the same inclination of girl told me she was in love with this guy. First I thought she was in love with me and trying to pretend to be in love with someone else but when I asked her who, she took no time to supply me the name of the person. She even took a picture of the person in secrecy and use it as a background on her laptop. The thing is they work together at the same lab. The problem is the guy does not know anything and besides, the guy is shy. The girl is a bit bushful as well.
 
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She really likes somebody else. So when she brings that **** up again be like "I don't give a fukk, if it aint about I dont wanna hear it"
 
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My EX girl did that all the time.

She told me stuff like, that guy is so cool he could get any girl he whant.

I don't know if it was some kind of test. Or if she really ment it.
I think it was some kind of mental abuse game. To se if i cared.

But that girl was suffering from borderline disorder. So i would not consider
her as a normal girl. But she often told me stuff like that, and the guys
she pointed at was just geeks in my mind. So i did not get jelous.
But now afterwards i understand she probadly sleept with all of them.
 
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I have a friend that always says stuff like that, like oh look at his muscles, he is sexy, think i should talk to him? It reall freaked me out, but since she was a friend i took it more seriously.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just turn it all into a joke and say something smartass like "hey, u wanna do me a favour. Go talk to him 4 me and find out if he has a boyfriend" or w/e u can come up with

It shows that u aren't jealous and it will make her laugh. IMO its all BS designed to test ur jealousy
 
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heh... i remember this friend telling this girl ,that i was kinda interested in ,if she liked me.. she said NO rite there in my face... 2 months later we ended up as friends with benefits cuz neither of us wants a relationship since we see each other every day (same school)

so i'd doubt any girl would tell u shes in love with u, or likes in ur face
 
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