Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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when a girl sends you an AFC text

randalll

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so ive been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks. yesterday one of her friends was really upset, so i just talked to her for a bit, gave her a hug and tried to make her feel a bit better. the girl i was seeing was about when this was happening

anyway she sent me a text saying 'you obviously like *friends name* more than me x'

what would you guys text back here?

bear in mind she's only 18, and quite insecure


randall
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Groovy

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"Relax, there's enough randall for everyone." :D

If you want to be a ***** leave a space and say:






















Except for you you have to pay for it
/ or work harder for it.

or something like that. :crazy:
 

Credos

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randalll said:
so ive been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks. yesterday one of her friends was really upset, so i just talked to her for a bit, gave her a hug and tried to make her feel a bit better. the girl i was seeing was about when this was happening

anyway she sent me a text saying 'you obviously like *friends name* more than me x'

what would you guys text back here?

bear in mind she's only 18, and quite insecure


randall
I would text:
"Jealousy is a bad sin woman! You'll have to make up for that!! (minimum a date with a kiss close)"

Suddenly she's less stupid (as you shown her the picture that you LIKE her more..) and hopefully stops the jealous nagging crap... It's probebly some crappy test like alwayse...
 

Warrior74

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honestly I at this point in my life would not even respond to that. If I'm talking/texting her then I'm interested. I don't have to prove it and words never prove anything. Action does. She might be too young minded for me. Then again, I might be too old to be dating 18 year olds, hehe. That may not be DJ but that's how I feel about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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