"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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randalll

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so ive been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks. yesterday one of her friends was really upset, so i just talked to her for a bit, gave her a hug and tried to make her feel a bit better. the girl i was seeing was about when this was happening

anyway she sent me a text saying 'you obviously like *friends name* more than me x'

what would you guys text back here?

bear in mind she's only 18, and quite insecure


randall
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Groovy

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"Relax, there's enough randall for everyone." :D

If you want to be a ***** leave a space and say:






















Except for you you have to pay for it
/ or work harder for it.

or something like that. :crazy:
 

Credos

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randalll said:
so ive been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks. yesterday one of her friends was really upset, so i just talked to her for a bit, gave her a hug and tried to make her feel a bit better. the girl i was seeing was about when this was happening

anyway she sent me a text saying 'you obviously like *friends name* more than me x'

what would you guys text back here?

bear in mind she's only 18, and quite insecure


randall
I would text:
"Jealousy is a bad sin woman! You'll have to make up for that!! (minimum a date with a kiss close)"

Suddenly she's less stupid (as you shown her the picture that you LIKE her more..) and hopefully stops the jealous nagging crap... It's probebly some crappy test like alwayse...
 

Warrior74

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honestly I at this point in my life would not even respond to that. If I'm talking/texting her then I'm interested. I don't have to prove it and words never prove anything. Action does. She might be too young minded for me. Then again, I might be too old to be dating 18 year olds, hehe. That may not be DJ but that's how I feel about it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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