"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When a girl says you're a "Scam"

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Insouciant

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Been gaming a chick a long time.

She recently said that I was a "scam", however.

I can only read that as two ways:

1) She thinks that I'm playing her / my intentions aren't pure or;
2) I wasn't who she thought I would be.

Thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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can't be nice ...

Scam has very bad connotations.

This one is probably brain dead.

Move on.
 
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She doesn't trust you / she is insecure.

Bottom line.. just another of the thousands of excuses women use to keep their legs closed longer so you can jump through more hoops/prove yourself/spend more money, etc. :D
 
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