Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When a girl says you're a "Scam"

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Been gaming a chick a long time.

She recently said that I was a "scam", however.

I can only read that as two ways:

1) She thinks that I'm playing her / my intentions aren't pure or;
2) I wasn't who she thought I would be.

Thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Boilermaker

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can't be nice ...

Scam has very bad connotations.

This one is probably brain dead.

Move on.
 

PlayHer Man

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She doesn't trust you / she is insecure.

Bottom line.. just another of the thousands of excuses women use to keep their legs closed longer so you can jump through more hoops/prove yourself/spend more money, etc. :D
 
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