"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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when a girl says you smell good...

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The other night, I was at the bar in the city with some friends and some new girls. Anyway, during the night two girls on seperate occasions told me, "you smell good". Well, like a dork that I am, I always concentrate so much on my "game" that when a little gift like that is thrown my way I never seem to know what to say except to gawk back at the girl and say, "gee thanks". You would think the second time a girl complimented me on the same night i would have thought of something clever to say but nope... I just said, "gee thanks" (or something like that) again.

This post might go under the heading "how to receive compliments from girls" but I was wondering how I should respond? Should I say something ****y-funny? Should I say, "thanks you too!" or "yeah, if you're lucky you'll get to smell more of me later." etc? Or would a genuine, "thank you, I appreciate it." do the trick?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No big deal buddy but maybe it was to you since you most likely thought the girls were hot. I can just imagine what it'd be like if they said "your cute":eek: To think, a female telling you that you smell good is a 'sticking point' for you:p
 

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girl: u smell good

me: i taste even better :rolleyes:
 

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TASTE. GENIUS.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i would get close to her neck, smell her right back and then say, 'you do too'
 

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HAHA!!! we got a winner, thats the ultimate answer right there.

I taste even better.

Ima be using it from now on.
 

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Her: You smell good!

Me: No I don't, you're just attracted to me! :)


Any compliment that a girl gives, usually, at least, is a sign that she'd like you to pursue it further. That is their version of a straight approach, their version of initiating, except, we don't make much out of it because we use direct compliments and we really mean exactly what we say, and women interpret them as just a cheesy way that they are being hit on; we hear them as exatly what they sound like, a straight up compliment.

When women use a compliment, to us it sounds like a compliment, but it usually carries all the meaning that, they at least, feel that is necesary for the guy to recognize it; and off course, guys usually don't make much of it.
 

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Originally posted by [DoN.2.Da.JUaN]
girl: u smell good

me: i taste even better :rolleyes:
LOL, I'm gonna have got keep that one nearby. hahaha
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agree, like i said originally, we all focus a lot on our own games and what we say etc... but personally, i've never taken much thought on the situations when girls actually come up with their own original thoughts, (haha). sometimes when a girl gives an indirect compliment, it's just a compliment... but other times its quite an invitation.... I like to think of it as an invitation :)

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Her: You smell good!

Me: No I don't, you're just attracted to me! :)


Any compliment that a girl gives, usually, at least, is a sign that she'd like you to pursue it further. That is their version of a straight approach, their version of initiating, except, we don't make much out of it because we use direct compliments and we really mean exactly what we say, and women interpret them as just a cheesy way that they are being hit on; we hear them as exatly what they sound like, a straight up compliment.

When women use a compliment, to us it sounds like a compliment, but it usually carries all the meaning that, they at least, feel that is necesary for the guy to recognize it; and off course, guys usually don't make much of it.
 

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Originally posted by [DoN.2.Da.JUaN]
girl: u smell good

me: i taste even better :rolleyes:
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I'm a girl and if the guy I just complemented (let's say that yes, I was attracted to him) would say that to me t would actually turn me on...:up:
 
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