"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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when a girl says you smell good...

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The other night, I was at the bar in the city with some friends and some new girls. Anyway, during the night two girls on seperate occasions told me, "you smell good". Well, like a dork that I am, I always concentrate so much on my "game" that when a little gift like that is thrown my way I never seem to know what to say except to gawk back at the girl and say, "gee thanks". You would think the second time a girl complimented me on the same night i would have thought of something clever to say but nope... I just said, "gee thanks" (or something like that) again.

This post might go under the heading "how to receive compliments from girls" but I was wondering how I should respond? Should I say something ****y-funny? Should I say, "thanks you too!" or "yeah, if you're lucky you'll get to smell more of me later." etc? Or would a genuine, "thank you, I appreciate it." do the trick?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No big deal buddy but maybe it was to you since you most likely thought the girls were hot. I can just imagine what it'd be like if they said "your cute":eek: To think, a female telling you that you smell good is a 'sticking point' for you:p
 

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girl: u smell good

me: i taste even better :rolleyes:
 

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TASTE. GENIUS.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i would get close to her neck, smell her right back and then say, 'you do too'
 

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HAHA!!! we got a winner, thats the ultimate answer right there.

I taste even better.

Ima be using it from now on.
 

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Her: You smell good!

Me: No I don't, you're just attracted to me! :)


Any compliment that a girl gives, usually, at least, is a sign that she'd like you to pursue it further. That is their version of a straight approach, their version of initiating, except, we don't make much out of it because we use direct compliments and we really mean exactly what we say, and women interpret them as just a cheesy way that they are being hit on; we hear them as exatly what they sound like, a straight up compliment.

When women use a compliment, to us it sounds like a compliment, but it usually carries all the meaning that, they at least, feel that is necesary for the guy to recognize it; and off course, guys usually don't make much of it.
 

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Originally posted by [DoN.2.Da.JUaN]
girl: u smell good

me: i taste even better :rolleyes:
LOL, I'm gonna have got keep that one nearby. hahaha
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree, like i said originally, we all focus a lot on our own games and what we say etc... but personally, i've never taken much thought on the situations when girls actually come up with their own original thoughts, (haha). sometimes when a girl gives an indirect compliment, it's just a compliment... but other times its quite an invitation.... I like to think of it as an invitation :)

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Her: You smell good!

Me: No I don't, you're just attracted to me! :)


Any compliment that a girl gives, usually, at least, is a sign that she'd like you to pursue it further. That is their version of a straight approach, their version of initiating, except, we don't make much out of it because we use direct compliments and we really mean exactly what we say, and women interpret them as just a cheesy way that they are being hit on; we hear them as exatly what they sound like, a straight up compliment.

When women use a compliment, to us it sounds like a compliment, but it usually carries all the meaning that, they at least, feel that is necesary for the guy to recognize it; and off course, guys usually don't make much of it.
 

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Originally posted by [DoN.2.Da.JUaN]
girl: u smell good

me: i taste even better :rolleyes:
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I'm a girl and if the guy I just complemented (let's say that yes, I was attracted to him) would say that to me t would actually turn me on...:up:
 
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