"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When A Girl Says She'll Call You Back

ashman1

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What does it mean when a girl says that she 'll call you back and then never
calls you back . and what is the best DJ response to this ?
I know it's a noob question but , hey , bite me - N
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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chuchu

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Next, is the name of the game.

I will go get another girl within 2 minutes.

Even if I see a girl who acts like slugs, I just walk away even in a middle of a conversation. Don't waste your time with those types.
 

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two things..............1) she might actually have had some sort of emergency (too many to mention)

2) THIS IS CLASSIC CHIC CODE FOR ..............she is spinning plates (has more men calling her). Chics often opt the cliche` I will call you later, call you back, can i call you right back, or similar variations.

Your response.............

1) NEXT-quick and less headaches........not 100% accurate but in most cases works well. Just say "ya right........I aint new to this.......playa" then hang up.

2) TEXT AND SAY WTF OR WHATS GIVES?

3) call her up and seduce

4) WAIT TIL SHE CALLS...........its possible, it does happen but not an average.
 

IsiMan84

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chuchu said:
Next, is the name of the game.

I will go get another girl within 2 minutes.

Even if I see a girl who acts like slugs, I just walk away even in a middle of a conversation. Don't waste your time with those types.
Yes.
r0cky said:
It means she doesnt like talking to you.
Move on to the next girl.
Yes.
COD said:
two things..............1) she might actually have had some sort of emergency (too many to mention)

2) THIS IS CLASSIC CHIC CODE FOR ..............she is spinning plates (has more men calling her). Chics often opt the cliche` I will call you later, call you back, can i call you right back, or similar variations.

Your response.............

1) NEXT-quick and less headaches........not 100% accurate but in most cases works well. Just say "ya right........I aint new to this.......playa" then hang up.

2) TEXT AND SAY WTF OR WHATS GIVES?

3) call her up and seduce

4) WAIT TIL SHE CALLS...........its possible, it does happen but not an average.
Terrible advice. The first part of 1) is plenty, no need to say anything. 2) just shows frustration, 3) means she's in power and 4) is just wasting time you could use getting other girls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If a girl says she'll call you, move on immediately and consider it a pleasant surprise if they actually do call.

99.9% of the time, it's a nice way to blow you off.
 
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