"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a girl says "nothings going to happen"...Escalation...
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
drewsg
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Just get her in a situation where you guys are both close together and start touching her.. if she resists, back off and then start again a few minutes later
Chickfight
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Again, don't look at what she says, look at what she does. In your case coming over to your house and "hanging out" with you alone.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Korrupt
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They want it, but they want it to be your fault.
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NEVER believe what they say they won't do.
Watch them say it then do the complete opposite...awesome!!
Crissco
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She came over, we watched comedy movies, cuddled a bit, gave eachother massages. Kissed, but nothing big. When I gave her a massage I kept tickling her and she got pissed lol wtf..She does want to hang out again tomorow.
I even tried backing off, nothing..It weird ive has girls hotter then her jump on and me eat them out the first night.
For tomorrow night how should I pull this off that I can get in her pants?
Let's Get Real
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One time a girl said "is it possible that we go back to your house, make-out and not have sex?" I said, "yea anything's possible...but who said I wanted to have sex with you? You gotta get in line just like the rest of em
" We were f@cking 2 hours later.Crissco
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Exactly what I said last night on the phone.Let's Get Real said:Next time she says nothings going to happen...tell her "don't flatter yourself, would said I wanted it too?"
One time a girl said "is it possible that we go back to your house, make-out and not have sex?" I said, "yea anything's possible...but who said I wanted to have sex with you? You gotta get in line just like the rest of em
ha ha nice bro!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Let's Get Real
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Hell yea! I don't know where I got it or after the book of pook i became it...Crissco said:
When I was driving to the hockey game...I also told her, "I hope you brought some money cuz I ain't payin for you." And then turned up the music and started dancing...she was so pissed it was hilarious.
Crissco
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Ive said **** like that too. But i came to realize thats not the way to go. You have to do it in a more suttle way. If you seduce her well enough she'll suggest that she pays. Then u know ur inLet's Get Real said:
However, if she's trying to be controlling or bluntly tells you it's not going to happen, I recommend Mystery's "Freeze Out" technique. Basically go as far as you can with her, kissing, touching, but when she stops you, just say "Ok, no problem. Let's watch TV" or "Ok. Let's go out" and just stop ALL activity. You could even start texting your friends. The key is to withdraw all the physical attention that was making her feel good and act totally indifferent to it by turning your attention to something else.
My ex used to play these control games with me at one time and it used to really annoy me. Then I started using this freeze out and it worked wonders.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
I did the freeze out. Didnt work bro. I was shocked. She said she went further then expected for the first time meeting me.Jariel said:Depends how she says it. If she tells you she's nervous, she wants to wait or something along those lines I think it's fair to respect that and not push it.
However, if she's trying to be controlling or bluntly tells you it's not going to happen, I recommend Mystery's "Freeze Out" technique. Basically go as far as you can with her, kissing, touching, but when she stops you, just say "Ok, no problem. Let's watch TV" or "Ok. Let's go out" and just stop ALL activity. You could even start texting your friends. The key is to withdraw all the physical attention that was making her feel good and act totally indifferent to it by turning your attention to something else.
My ex used to play these control games with me at one time and it used to really annoy me. Then I started using this freeze out and it worked wonders.
When I was giving her a message, I went near her ass and she got pissed, I accidentally tickled her she got pissed. LOL..So im guessing she is serious about not wanting to take it to far the first time. She "acted" or was really into the movie since she never saw it, then out of no where I go to kiss her, she kisses me, we start taking pictures forget about the movie. Then she goes back to watching the movie..lol wtf, seriously.
Overall went a bit better then excepted. Like I said took funny pictures together, kissed a bit...etc
I walked her to her car, and she gave me a quick kiss on the lips, WTF was that, then she goes thats all ur getting. I started to laugh bc I thought it was actually funny.
Ill see where tomorrow night leads and update.
she woudln't say anything otherwise. I mean really? you don't know how to escalate? Just kiss her, touch her be arousing, easy. cf: how to foreplay for dummies.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Crissco
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If you cna read correctly we did already dumbassBBbardot said:girls love to be used for sex. If she says that, the work is already half done
I mean really? you don't know how to escalate? Just kiss her, touch her be arousing, easy. cf: how to foreplay for dummies.
I know, im working on getting it back tonight.
We'll see how it goes
backbreaker
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Oh yeah and you should always escalate, but remember to be patient and not act like a horndog all the time.
Crissco
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She was at my place bro lolChickfight said:
Its funny though, ive brought girls over who where 10X hotter then her, and i ate them out the first time. Always started with the message, then went down lower..etc
But to get back on point, it does make sense since its the first time I met her. Im just gonna take it by ear, dont push to hard and just have fun.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.