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when a girl say i wont do "X" for you.

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ok so what happened today is. i was on Facebook and a friend of mine posted something about buying clothes. i asked if they were heels cos i am a heels man. she posted a pic of the heels with the caption. " so packers can get off tonight"

so after that a hole convo spewed about about heels n stuff. then half way threw she drops " I'm not wearing my heels for you" i just brushed it off. cos i don't care wither she dose or some doesn't. i just like talking about that stuff.

she has said this a few times on different things. each time i have blew it off. what do you guys think? sh@T test or what.

had this happen to an old girl. after like 3 times of saying no. she said yes. so. maybe i will get lucky with this girl and i will get some heels action.
 

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You call her a "friend". Just what is the nature of your relationship? The answer will have a lot to do with that.

On the surface it sounds like she felt she opened Pandora's box by posting a pic and making a sexual reference. Then when the reality of meeting up with you hit, she had to shut the box, otherwise there would be an implied committment to sexual activity.

Or not....
 

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hahaha I'm diggin Atom Smasher's analytical brain. I think he hit the nail on the head though.

Edit: I think she wants you, but she wants you to seduce her. I say the box is still open, but whatever you been doing just keep doing it.
 

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Chamber36 said:
hahaha I'm diggin Atom Smasher's analytical brain. I think he hit the nail on the head though.

Edit: I think she wants you, but she wants you to seduce her. I say the box is still open, but whatever you been doing just keep doing it.

oh i intend too. only problem is i am leaving soon. so i was hoping i could fast foreword the process so she makes it a bit more obvious you know. i don't really want to make a move and have her stop me. that would be game over.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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