"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When a girl phones (and she has ALWAYS comunicated via a messaging APP) is it an IOI (indicator of interest)?

Questionitall

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Please advice.

She has always messaged but she phoned me for the first time (and I think the reason for her call was not even necessary).

She was my manager at a language school I worked at and phoned to ask if I would ever want to sub. if she happened to need me (I recently left the language school after working there full time).

She could have sent a message through the app (always did this before).

Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Romanemp22

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Is this even relevant to be a thread? Not making fun of you but in my opinion it really doesn't matter on where and how she contacts me. The real question is is she showing sings of interest in RL
 

BackInTheGame78

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Lmao...you must really have no options to be even worried about this OP.

If you want to know invite her out in person and see what happens and you will get your answer.
 
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