"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When a girl is too good to be true

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Have any of you guys ever had a woman that is just too damn good to be true?

Just wondering because for some reason I just can't seem to relax and accept that she is actually an amazing girl.

Perhaps it is just because I am so used of americaned hors that My gut instincts are telling me there is some bull**** going on I have yet to figureout.

I mean this hot latino girl is madly in love with me. She says it all the time and even her actions say the same. The problem is that when she says "I love you" it doesn't do much more for me. I need physical interaction with her to develop those kinds of feelings. Words just don't move me. I think this is because I have moved so far away from being desperate (thanks to this site) that I'm almost not wanting what I used to desire so much. Basically, all the things that your typical AFC goes mad about not having I have. I just can't accept it.

Anyway, just wondering if any of you know what I'm talking about .

Right now I'm thinking of puting this girl to the test and letting her prove it to me. On the other hand, I might just do nothing and stop thinking about my chiquita.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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believe it or not, unlike what these women haters say, if u FEEL love for a girl who u find perfect in a non oneitis way, then u should pursue it and stop worrying and analyzing
 
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If she is a virgin there may be hope - if not, then you are just the next pimp in line!!!
 

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About the title...no such thing.

I have so many friends that hype the **** out of chicks. They aren't ****. Act accordingly.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
If she is a virgin there may be hope - if not, then you are just the next pimp in line!!!
only one other coc-k in her one time only. that was several years ago too.

maybe thats what I can't accept
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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00Kevin said:
only one other coc-k in her one time only. that was several years ago too.

maybe thats what I can't accept
Why is it that "good" girls always have had "only one" penis? Virginity is absolute - "one" penis is not - for this cannot be proven - but we do know her mindset!!! No such thing as a "good" hor!!! BUT, some make allowances!!!
 

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Flabbergasped? said:
About the title...no such thing.

I have so many friends that hype the **** out of chicks. They aren't ****. Act accordingly.
yeah very true. no one is perfect.

the problem is that I can love this girl. I don't really have any reasons not too. I also don't have a problem being with her.

I just can't respond so fast. This crazy girl wets my knee before I can even take her bra off! I mean she is so crazy about me that I have to force her to calm down. I have to tell her to stop so I make love to her at my pace.

She is a wild rabbit and me... well I'm like a bear taking his lazy ass time.

Maybe I just don't know how to deal with latina girls.
 

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wow. LMS dude, you've got some serious problems. Why is it that you hold women to such high standards? Isn't this another way of putting the pvssy on a pedestal?
 

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00Kevin said:
only one other coc-k in her one time only. that was several years ago too.

maybe thats what I can't accept
Multiply that by 3... Didn't you fvckers learn anything in college? ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lebRambo said:
wow. LMS dude, you've got some serious problems. Why is it that you hold women to such high standards? Isn't this another way of putting the pvssy on a pedestal?
It is the mindset that dictates the action!! The hor is corrupted physically because her mind is corrupt!! It is the corrupted mind that that must change to prevent her physical corruption!!! Has her mind changed??? NO!!!!!! I can guarantee you that she will have sex again with one who is not her husband!!

ookevin - don't think that you are special - this will lead to infactuation and then reality will become blurred!!!
 

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lebRambo said:
wow. LMS dude, you've got some serious problems. Why is it that you hold women to such high standards? Isn't this another way of putting the pvssy on a pedestal?
I don't put women in high standards at all. I mean I know how to spot a dirty f-cuken hor and trust me if you have read my other posts you would know that I don't do that.

When I rationalize this girl she is too good to be true. The problem is that can't even begin to think of her as anything more then all the other girls I know. I just can't show this girl any more value dispite the fact that I think she might (just this one girl) deserve a little more.

Perhaps this post should be in the mature forum. It might make more sense there since most guys there are looking for a great girl to be serious with.
 

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Be a man, and just fvck her already... who gives a sh1t if she loves you or not.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
It is the mindset that dictates the action!! The hor is corrupted physically because her mind is corrupt!! It is the corrupted mind that that must change to prevent her physical corruption!!! Has her mind changed??? NO!!!!!! I can guarantee you that she will have sex again with one who is not her husband!!

ookevin - don't think that you are special - this will lead to infactuation and then reality will become blurred!!!
what I didn't say is that I have very high standards and currently I am looking for a great girl who is my match physically, mentally, emotionally, and spirtually. This girl hasn't failed me in that regard so far.

As for her mindset she felt so bad about that one time that she went to the priest to confess her sin. Trust me this girls mindset is correct in this regard. I mean at least she realizes the sin of what she did. I have a lot of respect for her in that regard. In fact that is the only situation where I would consider loving a non-virgin. (I'm sure most of you won't understand that)
 

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Play the Game said:
Be a man, and just fvck her already... who gives a sh1t if she loves you or not.


The problem is that I want to love her

Also ****ing many girls doesn't make you a man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was just fvckin around man. That's what my dumbass friends next door would say. :D
They're Alpha to the EXTREME..... HOOOOAH!
 

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Play the Game said:
I was just fvckin around man. That's what my dumbass friends next door would say. :D
They're Alpha to the EXTREME..... HOOOOAH!
lol
 

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Why the **** will you test her?
Dude, you say she is in love with you and you can't belive it.
Maybe it is because you don't feel worthy?
 

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Girls like being #2 in a relationship, It's a fact. It gives em something to strive for... So yeah go ahead and give her some test if you want too.
But i agree with the above poster, i think deep down you have some insecurities.
Fear of abandonment and rejection?

I think you're testing her to see if she will leave you, because you can't handle it once you "attach" yourself to her.
Your problem is you're always getting attached and hurt and you fear she won't love you back like all the other girls before her. Am i right?
 

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Just relax. This girl is obviously into you. SHE HAS A HIGH INTEREST LEVEL which I feel is one of the most important factors in a healthy relationship. She is obviously crazy about you. My best advice would just be yourself. Good girls are pretty rare these days. Don't just throw it away.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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