"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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when a girl is nervous around you....

Dave111

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is this normally a good thing?, I like a girl who works in a starbucks at the airport, I really like her and she is a good laugh, but anytime I talk to her, she seems to be nervous, etc.......is it because I'm teasing her too much?, I'm not sure of the signals she's giving off, and I know she is singal.
 

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JJMcLure

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Generally chicks (who aren't a SHB, or AW or have high confidence), i.e. your average cute chick, will often get nervous around a guy they like. Does that mean she likes you? Who knows, signals are unreliable. Chicks interpret teasing as interest, it communicates differently to chicks other than its face value. So you can expect she "knows" you like her already. The only way to find out if she likes you is to ask for her number or set up a "date". The longer you leave it the less chance you have (she loses interest, she starts to think you don't have the guts to ask) and the more chance some other guy beats you to it. Chicks expect a guy to take the lead. Don't expect an invitation or magic moment, just do it. The only thing standing in your way is fear of rejection.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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JJ- what happens when you ask for girl's # and she says something along the lines of "im not that easy", happened to me a looong time ago. Chick I was so convinced liked me, but was always playing like she didnt, even though she would give me a huge smile whenever i saw her, always gigiling too.
 

brenbaus

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if you dont get the number close, just go on to the next girl, there are lots of them out there
 
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