"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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when a girl is nervous around you....

Dave111

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is this normally a good thing?, I like a girl who works in a starbucks at the airport, I really like her and she is a good laugh, but anytime I talk to her, she seems to be nervous, etc.......is it because I'm teasing her too much?, I'm not sure of the signals she's giving off, and I know she is singal.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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JJMcLure

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Generally chicks (who aren't a SHB, or AW or have high confidence), i.e. your average cute chick, will often get nervous around a guy they like. Does that mean she likes you? Who knows, signals are unreliable. Chicks interpret teasing as interest, it communicates differently to chicks other than its face value. So you can expect she "knows" you like her already. The only way to find out if she likes you is to ask for her number or set up a "date". The longer you leave it the less chance you have (she loses interest, she starts to think you don't have the guts to ask) and the more chance some other guy beats you to it. Chicks expect a guy to take the lead. Don't expect an invitation or magic moment, just do it. The only thing standing in your way is fear of rejection.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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JJ- what happens when you ask for girl's # and she says something along the lines of "im not that easy", happened to me a looong time ago. Chick I was so convinced liked me, but was always playing like she didnt, even though she would give me a huge smile whenever i saw her, always gigiling too.
 

brenbaus

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if you dont get the number close, just go on to the next girl, there are lots of them out there
 
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