"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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when a girl is nervous around you....

Dave111

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is this normally a good thing?, I like a girl who works in a starbucks at the airport, I really like her and she is a good laugh, but anytime I talk to her, she seems to be nervous, etc.......is it because I'm teasing her too much?, I'm not sure of the signals she's giving off, and I know she is singal.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JJMcLure

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Generally chicks (who aren't a SHB, or AW or have high confidence), i.e. your average cute chick, will often get nervous around a guy they like. Does that mean she likes you? Who knows, signals are unreliable. Chicks interpret teasing as interest, it communicates differently to chicks other than its face value. So you can expect she "knows" you like her already. The only way to find out if she likes you is to ask for her number or set up a "date". The longer you leave it the less chance you have (she loses interest, she starts to think you don't have the guts to ask) and the more chance some other guy beats you to it. Chicks expect a guy to take the lead. Don't expect an invitation or magic moment, just do it. The only thing standing in your way is fear of rejection.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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JJ- what happens when you ask for girl's # and she says something along the lines of "im not that easy", happened to me a looong time ago. Chick I was so convinced liked me, but was always playing like she didnt, even though she would give me a huge smile whenever i saw her, always gigiling too.
 

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if you dont get the number close, just go on to the next girl, there are lots of them out there
 
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