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When a girl is attracted to you, she becomes logical?

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Hi guys

I don't know if I am right but I have noticed this a lot.

When a girl is attracted to you, she becomes logical. For example, if today I tell a girl "merry christmas"
if she is not attracted to me, she will say "thank you" - not a logical response
but if she is attracted to me, she will say "it already passed" - logical response, it's not christmas any more.

this is just one example. I have noticed over and over again, if she is being logical, that means she is attracted to me. By logical I don't mean reasonable. I mean the literal meaning of the word logical. today is not christmas, I am saying merry christmas,the logical part of her brain says "it's not christmas any more"

or am I wrong?
 

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Hi guys

I don't know if I am right but I have noticed this a lot.

When a girl is attracted to you, she becomes logical. For example, if today I tell a girl "merry christmas"
if she is not attracted to me, she will say "thank you" - not a logical response
but if she is attracted to me, she will say "it already passed" - logical response, it's not christmas any more.

this is just one example. I have noticed over and over again, if she is being logical, that means she is attracted to me. By logical I don't mean reasonable. I mean the literal meaning of the word logical. today is not christmas, I am saying merry christmas,the logical part of her brain says "it's not christmas any more"

or am I wrong?
That's a hell of an observations. In the first case she said what she was supposed to say. In the second case she analyzed and thought about it. Give more examples.
 

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I think the correct word is "rational."

People in general tend to buy first with emotion, then rationalize it afterwards. If she's sold on you, she will rationalize things associated with you.
 

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An excellent observation, one that I have just started thinking about.

The non-rational response, "Thank you", is "social Teflon" designed to make you slip off and away from her. It gets rid of you.

But if she's attracted, she wants there to be "social friction" which you both can use to gain a foothold onto further interaction.

I honestly thought I was alone in thinking of this, and am glad that other guys are thinking of it too.
 

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if today I tell a girl "merry christmas"

if she is not attracted to me, she will say "thank you" - not a logical response
but if she is attracted to me, she will say "it already passed" - logical response, it's not christmas any more.

if she is being logical, that means she is attracted to me. By logical I don't mean reasonable. I mean the literal meaning of the word logical. today is not christmas, I am saying merry christmas,the logical part of her brain says "it's not christmas any more"
You mean she becomes literal, not logical.

If I told a girl ”Merry Christmas” and she said “it already passed.”, I wouldn’t consider that to mean she wanted to rip off my clothes and make sweet love to me.

That’s not a good response, that’s more like “you are an idiot, wake up.”

In my experience, if a woman is attracted, she initiates.
 

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You mean she becomes literal, not logical.

If I told a girl ”Merry Christmas” and she said “it already passed.”, I wouldn’t consider that to mean she wanted to rip off my clothes and make sweet love to me.

That’s not a good response, that’s more like “you are an idiot, wake up.”

In my experience, if a woman is attracted, she initiates.
He was saying he noticed that with females who are into him. I assume that means they have sex regularly.
 

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He was saying he noticed that with females who are into him. I assume that means they have sex regularly.
no, I am talking about cold approaches. If I tell her "merry christmas" and she says "thank you" that means she will not give me her number. if she says something logical like "christmas is not until december" I end up getting her number
 

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no, I am talking about cold approaches. If I tell her "merry christmas" and she says "thank you" that means she will not give me her number. if she says something logical like "christmas is not until december" I end up getting her number
It dont mean nothing unless shes hooking it up. I get most women who double take phone numbers.
 

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No, it means she sees something of value of him, she took time to process it, to create a true statement, she wants to prove to him...
true = yes

follow this up with:
"yes, thats right... and the sky is always blue above the clouds, isnt that right?"
yes = true

anything you tell her to do or think after this = yes

(this is simple hypnosis/NLP)
 

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This is a very strange way of thinking.

I thought saying thanks or thank you was common courtesy.
If she says thank you after I hold the door for her, does that mean she's interested in me? WHAT???
I can't wrap my mind around this.

I usually tell people to go f*ck themselves if they have bad manners or behave in an inconsiderate manner towards me.
 

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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