Heretolearn
Master Don Juan
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What do you guys do if a girl has a boyfriend.
All the girls I might be interested in taking out have boyfriends. When I ask them to meet up they generally resist my flirting then finally say I have a boyfriend but would love to meet up (lunch or go to the beach or something). I used to not care, flirt my butt off and let them make the choice, some I would have fun with and I would end up with.
After my recent pain (see my recent threads) I have re-evaluated that philosophy. Hence, what is the 'best' most mature thing to say and why.
background
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Some of you guys will know my woes from my previous threads (summary: had life shattered by woman, realised I am not the person I want to be nor living the life I want)
Perhaps from this I have bad karma. I have had three main relationships in my life (4 years, 1 year and 2 years (started when I was 18) (gaps of months in between).
The first two girls had boyfriends one about a week and the other around 5 years.
I now realise I am serving out my karma...........
All the girls I might be interested in taking out have boyfriends. When I ask them to meet up they generally resist my flirting then finally say I have a boyfriend but would love to meet up (lunch or go to the beach or something). I used to not care, flirt my butt off and let them make the choice, some I would have fun with and I would end up with.
After my recent pain (see my recent threads) I have re-evaluated that philosophy. Hence, what is the 'best' most mature thing to say and why.
background
----------------
Some of you guys will know my woes from my previous threads (summary: had life shattered by woman, realised I am not the person I want to be nor living the life I want)
Perhaps from this I have bad karma. I have had three main relationships in my life (4 years, 1 year and 2 years (started when I was 18) (gaps of months in between).
The first two girls had boyfriends one about a week and the other around 5 years.
I now realise I am serving out my karma...........