When a girl disrespects, then act as if nothing had happened

[thepastispast]

Hi guys, I have seen a lot of excellent advice on this forum and decided to try my luck!

I have been dating my gorgeous neighbor for 4 weeks. She's clearly attracted to me and wants to be in a relationship with me but she's a drama queen.

A few days ago we were texting and she started complaining about me not being available enough for her and we talked about it.

However, I asked her a simple question along the way and she completely ignored it and told me the conversation is over good night. I told her to answer and she just said good night.

Now I usually don't react to her but this time I did because I'm starting to get tired of her childish behaviors.

I told her if she doesn't give me the same respect I give her, we better go each in our own ways.

She didn't answer the text and went NC for 2-3 days and now she texted me like if nothing had happened saying "happy new year baby".

What should I do about the situation?

P.S Sorry for my English, I am mostly french

 

[exhausted]

Hi guys, I have seen a lot of excellent advice on this forum and decided to try my luck!

I have been dating my gorgeous neighbor for 4 weeks. She's clearly attracted to me and wants to be in a relationship with me but she's a drama queen.

A few days ago we were texting and she started complaining about me not being available enough for her and we talked about it.

However, I asked her a simple question along the way and she completely ignored it and told me the conversation is over good night. I told her to answer and she just said good night.

Now I usually don't react to her but this time I did because I'm starting to get tired of her childish behaviors.

I told her if she doesn't give me the same respect I give her, we better go each in our own ways.

She didn't answer the text and went NC for 2-3 days and now she texted me like if nothing had happened saying "happy new year baby".

What should I do about the situation?

P.S Sorry for my English, I am mostly french

She's a drama queen and feels anything she does is NEVER wrong.
This just gets worse as time goes on.
4 weeks is early to cause such drama and go nc for days. Most girls , even the ****ty ones are above and beyond accommodating for the first 6 months.

 

[thepastispast]

I totally agree with you.

However, I don't want to let go so quickly before at least showing her I won't pull up with her BS.

That's the question.

What should I do to let her know that I won't pull up with these behaviors?

I don't believe in words. Should I go NC for a while and just let her chase?

 

[wifehunter]

Maybe bipolar, "drop of a hat"witch???

She sounds crazies!

 

[Von]

Hi guys, I have seen a lot of excellent advice on this forum and decided to try my luck!

I have been dating my gorgeous neighbor for 4 weeks. She's clearly attracted to me and wants to be in a relationship with me but she's a drama queen.

A few days ago we were texting and she started complaining about me not being available enough for her and we talked about it.

However, I asked her a simple question along the way and she completely ignored it and told me the conversation is over good night. I told her to answer and she just said good night.

Now I usually don't react to her but this time I did because I'm starting to get tired of her childish behaviors.

I told her if she doesn't give me the same respect I give her, we better go each in our own ways.

She didn't answer the text and went NC for 2-3 days and now she texted me like if nothing had happened saying "happy new year baby".

What should I do about the situation?

P.S Sorry for my English, I am mostly french

Tu as fait la bonne chose.

L'étape suivante est de passer à une autre femme.

Celle-ci semble totalement focuser sur son besoin d'attention et ses problèmes.... tu veux pas vivre cela

 

[thepastispast]

Thanks for the advice.

But honestly I'm not ready to give up yet unless she doesn't change after my next move.

I ignored her Happy new year text.. Should I wait until she contact me back or should I wait a bit and make a move?

 

[bigneil]

How you say... wuss?

How do you not "put up with these behaviors"? inside the first month? You might never have had sex yet and you are talking about how she wants a relationship?

Did you enter France from Syria with a group of refugees by chance?

As a general rule, ignore bad behavior and reward good behavior. You should never have texted her about any demands. I'm surprised she wrote back. Never mention what happened and proceed normally.

My girl recently went MIA and came back to me and we had our best date. She said she just hates the holidays. That night she said she is falling in love with me, but this is 3 months after we first kissed and 2.5 months after we first had sex (and she said I made her come on the first date). But even she won't talk about a relationship yet (so neither do I). You have to wait until they want to talk about it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She doesn't understand why her new microwave is exercising agency and speaking up.

Why do we say microwave? Because he's the tool that she knows which buttons to push when she wants to heat it up?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I picked an inanimate kitchen appliance at random to show the lack of empathy but it works that way too haha

She just heating up her food! Many get a huge kick out of it like the empowering feeling a SLAVE DRIVER must've felt.

 

[marmel75]

Hi guys, I have seen a lot of excellent advice on this forum and decided to try my luck!

I have been dating my gorgeous neighbor for 4 weeks. She's clearly attracted to me and wants to be in a relationship with me but she's a drama queen.

A few days ago we were texting and she started complaining about me not being available enough for her and we talked about it.

However, I asked her a simple question along the way and she completely ignored it and told me the conversation is over good night. I told her to answer and she just said good night.

Now I usually don't react to her but this time I did because I'm starting to get tired of her childish behaviors.

I told her if she doesn't give me the same respect I give her, we better go each in our own ways.

She didn't answer the text and went NC for 2-3 days and now she texted me like if nothing had happened saying "happy new year baby".

What should I do about the situation?

P.S Sorry for my English, I am mostly french

Just keep banging her, she isn't relationship material but you already know that.

 

[Poon King]

Fvck her until it stops being fun, or a different lead comes up.

This is really the golden rule for success with women.

Men have the power to pump and dump. But for some stupid reason.. most men take "dump" off the table and stick it out until things get toxic and the woman leaves them. Its almost like men reject their own power or dislike having power. I don't get it.

My best guess is societal expectations, beta co-dependence and white knight thinking is at the root of the problem.

 

[Von]

That was sure helpful for the other 98% that don't speak French.

Translation or Traduction ?

You doing the right thing

The next step would be to next her, find a new woman

This one seems to be totally focused on her need for attention, her problems... you don't want to live with that

 

[RangerMIke]

Why are you worried about disciplining her? Go date other women and just keep fvcking this one, laugh this BS off. I mean really what's the problem? She said she was done talking and didn't want to answer a question. So what? Really who cares this isn't disrespect. You've only been seeing her for 4 weeks, you can not and should no be expecting anything from her. You're not in a relationship so who cares what she does.

 

[wifehunter]

This is really the golden rule for success with women.

Men have the power to pump and dump. But for some stupid reason.. most men take "dump" off the table and stick it out until things get toxic and the woman leaves them. Its almost like men reject their own power or dislike having power. I don't get it.

My best guess is societal expectations, beta co-dependence and white knight thinking is at the root of the problem.

Sometimes it's hard, like when she's got the looks, personality, and shows love/support...but the jealousy, insecurities and lack of communication ruin it (she's not ready for the real deal). What a waste!!! I had to walk! It wasn't working! Plus, I'm not ready yet, either.

Plate on!!!

 

[Denny19]

4 weeks is way to early for all this...you should be focusing on fun filled dates with opportunities for sex to happen.

But to be honest, she sounds insecure and you can tell she wants to dominate the 'relationship' ...she comes across as somebody of high drama and this will drive you crazy. I have no patience for women like this. She dismissed your text to show she's calling the shots.

I wouldn't give women like this the time of day. But if you like to Fck her, then follow what people are saying on here....ignore bad behavior, and reward good behavior....and lineup other women int he mean time....because if she's like this now, trust me when i tell you...you WILL get tired of her insecurities

 

[mrgoodstuff]

4 weeks is way to early for all this...you should be focusing on fun filled dates with opportunities for sex to happen.

But to be honest, she sounds insecure and you can tell she wants to dominate the 'relationship' ...she comes across as somebody of high drama and this will drive you crazy. I have no patience for women like this. She dismissed your text to show she's calling the shots.

I wouldn't give women like this the time of day. But if you like to Fck her, then follow what people are saying on here....ignore bad behavior, and reward good behavior....and lineup other women int he mean time....because if she's like this now, trust me when i tell you...you WILL get tired of her insecurities

With one like this you HAVE to be screwing someone else. She will drain you and wring you out like a wet towel. Even if you keep it controlled, it's heat and friction you wouldn't have to deal with.