What do you do in situations where a girl recognizes you know a lot of people/are connected and she comments on it? I have been brushing it off or ignoring her comments but I notice it happens quiet a bit with this one particular girl. Usually I feel like girls sense that I am connected/know people/etc but often they won't say much else besides "wow, you know everyone" but this girl has raised it up a few times now. Not sure if she is trying to qualify me or what but it is starting to feel like her interest in dependent on the social proof and getting me to second guess things. Should I continue to just ignore the comments and not acknowledge it?
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When a girl comments on "social proof"?
- Thread starter altec
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apprenticedj
Senior Don Juan
I think you should play it off in a mysterious way.
Her: Wow, you know everyone!
You: Yeah....I know a few.
Now she'll be thinking about all the ladies you know. Social proof is great, I'm glad you have that working in your favor.
Her: Wow, you know everyone!
You: Yeah....I know a few.
Now she'll be thinking about all the ladies you know. Social proof is great, I'm glad you have that working in your favor.
hockeyfreak79
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It doesn't sound like an issue at all, she's complementing you dude. Social proof is huge and woman are attracted to it. Having many social circles/friends is important, it shows you are out going and friendly.