What do you do in situations where a girl recognizes you know a lot of people/are connected and she comments on it? I have been brushing it off or ignoring her comments but I notice it happens quiet a bit with this one particular girl. Usually I feel like girls sense that I am connected/know people/etc but often they won't say much else besides "wow, you know everyone" but this girl has raised it up a few times now. Not sure if she is trying to qualify me or what but it is starting to feel like her interest in dependent on the social proof and getting me to second guess things. Should I continue to just ignore the comments and not acknowledge it?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When a girl comments on "social proof"?
- Thread starter altec
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
apprenticedj
Senior Don Juan
I think you should play it off in a mysterious way.
Her: Wow, you know everyone!
You: Yeah....I know a few.
Now she'll be thinking about all the ladies you know. Social proof is great, I'm glad you have that working in your favor.
Her: Wow, you know everyone!
You: Yeah....I know a few.
Now she'll be thinking about all the ladies you know. Social proof is great, I'm glad you have that working in your favor.
hockeyfreak79
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It doesn't sound like an issue at all, she's complementing you dude. Social proof is huge and woman are attracted to it. Having many social circles/friends is important, it shows you are out going and friendly.