Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When a girl asks if she can bring her friend to the date

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How do you respond?

Assume she isn't interested, and next?

Let her bring the friend and try to game both of them?

Assume it's a **** test and convince her not to bring the friend along?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Let her know when she can seperate herself from her friend to get back to you.
 

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How do you respond?

Assume she isn't interested, and next?

Let her bring the friend and try to game both of them?

Assume it's a **** test and convince her not to bring the friend along?
Tell her that you just invited her on the date. If she still insists on the friend tell her that it won't work and give you a call when she isn't busy. Don't try to convince her of anything. Lay it out tell her how it is and she can comply or not.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I actually wonder if it's a way to test and see if her friend approves of me, before she gets into doing anything intimate.
They're both fresh off the boat from Japan... THAT culture, you know.

Could be the exact opposite too.
 

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How do you respond?

Let her bring the friend and try to game both of them?
I really, really, really, want to read a thread where some b*tch tried this sh*t and the dude rose to the challenge, decided to test the limits of his game, and changed some attempted female f*ckery into some menage action. Even though the chick probably isn't interested in you and is using the friend as a c*ck blocker, if you're up to the challenge then go for. However, make it plain that this is a dutch date and everybody is responsible for their own food and drinks, at least until that they're proven that they're down for some freak sh*t. Good luck.
 
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Harry Wilmington

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Nothing says you have to go through with every date you propose, especially if she's trying to invite others. Plus, think about how rude that is: you're asking her out, so she can assume you're going to pay for her... and then she figures "oh, I'll invite someone else along and he'll pay for HER, too!"

It's ALWAYS a "no." I said "yes" to this type of request a few times in my college days, and it never resulted in me growing a deeper connection with the girl I was interested in (OR her friend). If she offers to bring someone along for the date, just say "nah, that's okay - just forget it" and move on. She probably wasn't interested in you like that anyway...
 

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"Is she hotter than you, if so bring the bring the friend and stay home"

if she wants to play the b1tch game play the assh0le game.. girls like that need to and like to be put in her place. shes just testing your stones.. Seems like shes into jerks so be a jerk for her.

Just say "Oh, we're having a three-some, I'm in!" Then see how she reacts.
Do not say that if you atually want 2 fvck her lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would say that a date is just for two people, so if she doesn't agree to that...fvck her.
Or, I would play a bit and tell her "Is she hotter than you, if so bring the bring the friend and stay home" like someone said above. A bit of ******* game just for your own fun.
 

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Had this happen once and worked in a threesome. We had sex once before but she flaked on me the previous date we set up and then on this day said her friend was going through some stuff blah blah and didn't want to leave her but if I wanted to drive out (an hour) to hang with both of them. I declined said I was tired from work and she should just stay with her friend, she said something along the lines of it will be fun and offered to meet a bit closer. Long story short I decided to go since I thought there was some chance at a threesome and there was, I showed up wasn't butt hurt, talked to the friend a bunch (who was a hot blond) ignoring my date a bit at first, and they basically seduced me into an all night threesome. Key is don't get butt hurt, and just play it cool talking to both so that your date wants your attention and see where the night goes.
 
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Had this happen once and worked in a threesome. We had sex once before but she flaked on me the previous date we set up and then on this day said her friend was going through some stuff blah blah and didn't want to leave her but if I wanted to drive out (an hour) to hang with both of them. I declined said I was tired from work and she should just stay with her friend, she said something along the lines of it will be fun and offered to meet a bit closer. Long story short I decided to go since I thought there was some chance at a threesome and there was, I showed up wasn't butt hurt, talked to the friend a bunch (who was a hot blond) ignoring my date a bit at first, and they basically seduced me into an all night threesome. Key is don't get butt hurt, and just play it cool talking to both so that your date wants your attention and see where the night goes.
Difference is you had sex before.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Say ok then proceed to game her friend completely ignoring your date.
That could easily backfire if you don't know her friend or what she looks like... unless you enjoy gaming girls you're not attracted to.
 

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Two is company, three is a crowd! Lol!!!
 

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she seems into you from the texts. you might actually be able to pull a 3 some here.. Bang her first then get her to bring her friend on a date and try to bang both
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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