"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a girl asks " how was the party yesterday"
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thorninmyside
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Albatross953
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Is this rocket science?
Answer the question.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Not to be rude or anything pairplus, because I usually like your posts alot, but I have to disagree with you on this point.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
I dont like this mentality of "I gave the wrong answer" or "sh*t, I should have said something different"
There is no fvcking wrong answer.
Be UNAPOLOGETICALLY you. If they dont like it? dont beat your self up. There are plenty of other women out there.
The second we start manipulating every damn word we say is the second we become SLAVES to the vagina. Sorry but I for one will not do that.
I will say whatever the fvck pleases ME. I will be SELF-amused. If they dont like it then DROP THEM.
Obviously go by the fundamentals such as having a sh*t load of core confidence and being ****y and funny, but DO NOT begin formulating and contemplating granular factors. That is the epitome of PVSSY whipped. And is a sure fire way to get your mind warped, and begin a downward spiral all the way back to AFC ville.
So OP, such a question is left up to your own imagination. Say what will make YOU laugh, say what will AMUSE YOU. If it ends up that she also finds it amusing GREAT! But if not, on to the next.
I say it is the most pitiful thing when a man sacrifices his own personality to get laid.
ps: I mean no offence PPRF, this is just my own opinion.
I agree with the rest of your post, but how does this even compute? If you have a sh!tload of core confidence etc. you won't be mulling over and trying to micromanage every detail of your actions, this would be insecurity. If you mean that he should stop being insecure and become confident, well I'd say it's better to try and not give a fvck, at first you lie to yourself that you don't care, but then you really don't. Somehow then, confidence gets a place to grow.narcissist said: