"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When a girl ask's how many girls youv'e been with?

foxhound87

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What's going on folks? Just wondering what you guys say in this situation. Normally I just flat out lie or turn it into another question...For example..

Hot girl "So how many girls have you been with?"
Me "What do you mean?" (Obviously I'm stalling here..)
Hot girl "How many girls have you had sex with?"
Me "Enough....."
Hot girl "Come on tell me..."

Normally I find that if a girl really likes you she will never let up on this question, especially if she thinks your a ladies man and you are good in the sack. I am just interested if what other guys say in this situation...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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penkitten

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there is a huge thread in the archive about this.
go take a look :)
 

Someone Much cooler

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i would ask how many girls she has been with or ask why she wants to know, is she interested in me only for my hot female friends, then bother her about bein a lesbo =)
 

STR8UP

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Don't ask don't tell.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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