"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When a girl ask's how many girls youv'e been with?

foxhound87

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What's going on folks? Just wondering what you guys say in this situation. Normally I just flat out lie or turn it into another question...For example..

Hot girl "So how many girls have you been with?"
Me "What do you mean?" (Obviously I'm stalling here..)
Hot girl "How many girls have you had sex with?"
Me "Enough....."
Hot girl "Come on tell me..."

Normally I find that if a girl really likes you she will never let up on this question, especially if she thinks your a ladies man and you are good in the sack. I am just interested if what other guys say in this situation...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten

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there is a huge thread in the archive about this.
go take a look :)
 

Someone Much cooler

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i would ask how many girls she has been with or ask why she wants to know, is she interested in me only for my hot female friends, then bother her about bein a lesbo =)
 

STR8UP

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Don't ask don't tell.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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