"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When a chick refers to you as buddy?

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dont dip your pen in the company ink. approach ELSEWHERE. 12 approaches a day, 4 times a week. now GO.

forget about this ONE chick. it's USELESS.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A couple things here:

There's not definite rule with anything, but I'd say more times than not if a chick calls you "buddy" or something similar your the MAYOR of the friend's zone. But like other's have said it TOTALLY depends on the situation and what's already happened between the two of you.

In your case, she's already canceled on you twice!! That's not really acceptable in my book, but it seems like she's only counter offering because she doesn't want to hurt you. Chicks are dumb like that, rather than be logical, they're logically illogical. Does that make sense?

I'd look for new prospects, but definitely throw that buddy line right back at her.




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Well, thanks.....who knows chicks are shady. This chick also calls me alot on my work phone to ask work questions...that she should know the answer to (I think it is just an excuse to talk to me). I am confused because 90% of the buying signals are there. When she counteroffered to go out on Friday...I declined. I said we will hang out next week...but maybe to raise her IL....I will ignore her most of the week and not ask her out. Besides, I am not going to take this personally. maybe she does like me, but feels uncomfortable with the whole work thing,
 
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actually, and I have had to make this dicision a number of times, if you ARE actually a very busy person, and you meet a girl you like, your damned if you do and damned if you don't.

You can't ask for her number and not call her because she will likely spit in your face when she sees you.

You can't NOT ask for her number because she will then put you in the Friends Catogory.

I have had both happen, more than once. It's one thing to "make yourself busy" but when you work 6 days a week for 14-15 hours a day, have family obligations and your own hobbies that you either want to decicate time to or at least take seriously enough not to miss them, not to mention actually friends, it is IMPOSSIBLE at times to meet new people.
 
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