"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When a chick or chicks want you but you don’t want them.

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How many of you have been approached by a chick or chicks you weren’t interested in? Not someone you dated, slept with, or saw for X amount of time.


I’m talking about either randomly came up to you or you were platonic with and they wanted you?


A few examples:


Long ago at a job I’d worked at some chick I wasn’t attracted to gave me a ride home she’d wanted me to hang out and had told several other co-workers I was her “darling” and wanted me to bang her. I declined and she of course went back to others which I heard she asked If I was “gay” because I’d given her the excuse I had “homework” to do. I simply wasn’t interested let alone attracted to her.


Another chick at another job I’d been told whenever I worked they noticed her not only always coming up to me and wearing makeup. I was cool with her but not attracted. When I finally left for a better job and I said my goodbye to her in the parking lot she broke down and started crying telling me If she was my girlfriend she’d be so good to me. I felt bad rejecting the chick but wasn’t interested in her.


Another chick at a more recent job had always tried to hit on me, and wanted me to come on vacation with her, She was pretty decent looking but was on me to the point she got annoying as well as her being an older woman. I pretty much blew her off.


And last for now a chick who at a bridal shower when I was on vacation with friends approached me and when I blew her off her friend came up all pissed off and told me: “You could have had her tonight!” The chick who approached me was the one getting married. I’ll pass.


Those are just a few chicks I wasn’t interested in.


Have you yourself ever had chicks who wanted you for whatever reason and approach you but you aren’t interested?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh well. So much for men of "high value" and "abundance". Guess most of the forum is only used to having to approach chicks and taking what they can get.
 
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