"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When a chick or chicks want you but you don’t want them.

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How many of you have been approached by a chick or chicks you weren’t interested in? Not someone you dated, slept with, or saw for X amount of time.


I’m talking about either randomly came up to you or you were platonic with and they wanted you?


A few examples:


Long ago at a job I’d worked at some chick I wasn’t attracted to gave me a ride home she’d wanted me to hang out and had told several other co-workers I was her “darling” and wanted me to bang her. I declined and she of course went back to others which I heard she asked If I was “gay” because I’d given her the excuse I had “homework” to do. I simply wasn’t interested let alone attracted to her.


Another chick at another job I’d been told whenever I worked they noticed her not only always coming up to me and wearing makeup. I was cool with her but not attracted. When I finally left for a better job and I said my goodbye to her in the parking lot she broke down and started crying telling me If she was my girlfriend she’d be so good to me. I felt bad rejecting the chick but wasn’t interested in her.


Another chick at a more recent job had always tried to hit on me, and wanted me to come on vacation with her, She was pretty decent looking but was on me to the point she got annoying as well as her being an older woman. I pretty much blew her off.


And last for now a chick who at a bridal shower when I was on vacation with friends approached me and when I blew her off her friend came up all pissed off and told me: “You could have had her tonight!” The chick who approached me was the one getting married. I’ll pass.


Those are just a few chicks I wasn’t interested in.


Have you yourself ever had chicks who wanted you for whatever reason and approach you but you aren’t interested?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oh well. So much for men of "high value" and "abundance". Guess most of the forum is only used to having to approach chicks and taking what they can get.
 
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