"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When a chick doesn't return your call?

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I know its time to move on
I called this chick, she didn't answer so i left a vociemail, its been 24 hours.
We were texting before a little bit.
If she calls back today or tommorow what should i do?
If i accidentally ran into her what should i do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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act like it doesnt affect you. you dont wait on her calls. you are a man with many options and shes low on the maximumax totem pole.
 

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Pokerstar i agree with you, If she calls me back should i be answering, if she tries to re arrange a meet up, how should i respond. and also if i ran into her?
 

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if she calls dont answer right away. call her back like 10 minutes later. it shows that you are not waiting by the phone and you have a life.

if she offers a meet up, try and come up with a better suggestion (she follows, you lead) but there is always compromise.

if you run into her make small chit chat. if she shows signs that she wants to chat a bit more, make an offer for a coffee or ssomewhere were you 2 can be secluded enough for you to make a move.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is she pino? take or out for some samprado or some thing filipino like that.
 

Maximummax

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I don't know what you said..Pino is a baby name right?
She is not a filipino, she is a caucasian
 

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by pino its short for filipino. yeah show her some of our culture if you can. if that dont spark any interest then, chuck her to the curb.
 

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Wait a week and text her as if nothing happened.

I had a girl who originally had high IL not reply to three consecutive text messages last week (after the first one she wrote the next day to say her phone died but blew off the next two). It looked grim.

But I waited a few days then sent her a humorous text. She wrote back immediately and I saw her that night.
 

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Exactly what PokerStar said.. This chick obviously doesn't know you. You are a sarging machine. You have what it takes to make any girl fall head over heels for you, just like a rockstar does.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yup..I agree with you Guys.
Play it cool as i don't care of her actions


Oh By the way this chicks birthday is coming up guys.. should i be sending her a birthday card.
 

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Just press on in life, do your thing, and make money. When you answer if you can't talk right now, you can't talk right now. If you can, you can. Just be busy. That's all that matters. You're playing the role of you. You're walking through life, forging your path. It's Your brain, and nothing else. That's the value. That's your worth to this world. It's an electric current that moves the elements as you walk.

It's -3 degrees outside btw.
 

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a chick to me is option
i think if she doesn't return call its her loose
not mine.

Thats what i learned from here, thanks to our senior donjuans
 
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