"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When a chick doesn't return your call?

Maximummax

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I know its time to move on
I called this chick, she didn't answer so i left a vociemail, its been 24 hours.
We were texting before a little bit.
If she calls back today or tommorow what should i do?
If i accidentally ran into her what should i do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PokerStar

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act like it doesnt affect you. you dont wait on her calls. you are a man with many options and shes low on the maximumax totem pole.
 

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Pokerstar i agree with you, If she calls me back should i be answering, if she tries to re arrange a meet up, how should i respond. and also if i ran into her?
 

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if she calls dont answer right away. call her back like 10 minutes later. it shows that you are not waiting by the phone and you have a life.

if she offers a meet up, try and come up with a better suggestion (she follows, you lead) but there is always compromise.

if you run into her make small chit chat. if she shows signs that she wants to chat a bit more, make an offer for a coffee or ssomewhere were you 2 can be secluded enough for you to make a move.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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is she pino? take or out for some samprado or some thing filipino like that.
 

Maximummax

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I don't know what you said..Pino is a baby name right?
She is not a filipino, she is a caucasian
 

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by pino its short for filipino. yeah show her some of our culture if you can. if that dont spark any interest then, chuck her to the curb.
 

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Wait a week and text her as if nothing happened.

I had a girl who originally had high IL not reply to three consecutive text messages last week (after the first one she wrote the next day to say her phone died but blew off the next two). It looked grim.

But I waited a few days then sent her a humorous text. She wrote back immediately and I saw her that night.
 

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Exactly what PokerStar said.. This chick obviously doesn't know you. You are a sarging machine. You have what it takes to make any girl fall head over heels for you, just like a rockstar does.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yup..I agree with you Guys.
Play it cool as i don't care of her actions


Oh By the way this chicks birthday is coming up guys.. should i be sending her a birthday card.
 

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Just press on in life, do your thing, and make money. When you answer if you can't talk right now, you can't talk right now. If you can, you can. Just be busy. That's all that matters. You're playing the role of you. You're walking through life, forging your path. It's Your brain, and nothing else. That's the value. That's your worth to this world. It's an electric current that moves the elements as you walk.

It's -3 degrees outside btw.
 

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a chick to me is option
i think if she doesn't return call its her loose
not mine.

Thats what i learned from here, thanks to our senior donjuans
 
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