When a chick brings up an ex use an ex to kill the convo and walk away.

[The411]

When some chick brings up an ex, keeps talking about them (not just a passing comment), and won't stop making you her personal Oprah, bring up your own ex and tell her she's changed your mind about exes and that you're going to work things out with yours. This way you've cancelled out being her bleeding heart talk show host and dropped a strong hint it's time for her to change the topic and move on with you or move on.

Thank her for her time. Tell her to call you in the future if you and your ex are broken up again by then and get up and leave. Problem solved.

 

[mangotot]

As long as she is slagging off her ex, she can talk about her ex all day long.

 

[The411]

As long as she is slagging off her ex, she can talk about her ex all day long.

So you prefer to sit and listen to that while being her psychiatrist?

Better to give her a sh1t or get off the pot response and throw it back at her. Mention your "ex" and you've changed your mind and will go back to her.

Then get up and tell her to call you if you aren't busy dating your ex again.

 

[The411]

I disagree with both comments.

When she keeps bringing up her ex, I say this:

"We don't need to talk about your ex anymore. The only way you'll be able to move on with your life is if you quit dwelling on the past. I would much rather spend our time together talking about you and me."

This is, of course, AFTER she brings up her old relationship the initial time. You must listen the first time she brings up her ex. When she does this, she's indirectly telling YOU what NOT to do.

And then she'll see him regardless behind your back.

If some broad keeps bring up her ex you need to tell them to call you when you aren't busy going back to your ex and keep it moving.

 

[Comatozed]

It's a bad sign if she even thinks about him. Her saying 'I hate him', usually would mean 'I still care'.