"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whatsapp contact initiation

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Flakey_Woman_Suck

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This chick I went out on a few dates with would sometimes initiate contact, has expressed interest in sex (not had yet) and doing fun stuff with me, but has recently toned down the initiating . We would whatsapp everyday, with her repyling enthusiastically and asking questions when I opened, but in the past few days she hasn't initiated once. I have even tried not saying anything for 1 day. This is potential relationship material: I want her to show some interest by initiating.

Or is my thinking flawed and should I just keep initiating no matter what?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DONT initiate anything. Go ghost. If she initiates again which she will because now you will be higher value in her eyes, ask her out and BANG her that night.

BTW since you went out on few dates, I think she may have lost interest since you forgot the golden rule. ESCALATE. get her in bed asap.
 
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mikey2012 said:
DONT initiate anything. Go ghost. If she initiates again which she will because now you will be higher value in her eyes, ask her out and BANG her that night.

BTW since you went out on few dates, I think she may have lost interest since you forgot the golden rule. ESCALATE. get her in bed asap.
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She initiated :)
 
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