Lots of disqualifiers, but the single biggest one is being overweight... that one alone for me disqualifies 50%+ of the females in the US. When I've been to Europe, where obesity isn't as much of a thing, I'd say about 1 in 4 girls near my age were bangable. Over here, it's like 1 in 8. And it's sad because weight is 100% controllable. When I see a girl who is 20 something pounds overweight, it's not just physically unattractive... it's like they're advertising, "I don't respect myself enough to take care of myself. F*ck it." Such a turn off. Do not want.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What's your top disqualifer for women
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